Is feeding a sign of love or obsession? The mystery of wanting to feed someone is baffling lots of psychotherapist, and it is not instantly clear how the trend got started. As a lot of other things, the idea of feeding seems to have come from the United States, and is now even invading British society. However exactly what makes us feed someone, and it excessive? It is some kind of compulsive disorder. We need to have the ability to treat it, but very few people appear to responds to treatment.
It is a practice which is both physically and mentally destructive, and it contains an element of control, but who is working out the control? The feeder or the person doing the feeding/ it is hard to tell, and it seems that this is a strange symbiotic relationship which understand very few bound. After all, the person who is doing the feeding is gradually eliminating the other person.
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He is eliminating me
In the beginning, my new boyfriend started to complain that I was too skinny. Okay, I have always been a little bit on the thin side, however it is just the way I am. I must admit that he is a very good cook and I always enjoyed what he served up. In the end, I just gave into him, and let him prepare all of the meals in the house. As I had a very busy job, it was not easy for me to manage what we ate, and without realizing it, I soon started swell and pile on the weight.
During that time, our sex went from a great to dazzling. It seemed the more weight I put on, the more my boyfriend took pleasure in making love with me. Soon, food became part of our love making ritual, and I was enjoying a lot that I did not recognize that it was a bit wrong. After sex, my boyfriend gave me even more food, and old me that I had been a good girl for him, and that seemed to turn him on again.
Before I knew it, he started to feed me too. Saturday morning was our “special time” and he used to cook me breakfast, and feed it to me. It was a bit strange at first but I was seriously in love with this guy. I could not see anything wrong with it, and it was not like he was hurting me at all. I enjoyed the attention and he always managed to make me feel so damn great. As a matter of fact, he even started to shower and bathe me, and though it was his little bit “kink”.
Nevertheless, I started to suffer from digestive problems and after talking to my colleagues at Basildon escorts I went to see a medical professional. It was my doctor who realized what was going on, and explained exactly what was going on, and discussed about feeding. It turned out that I was in a relationship with someone who was a feeder, and could not break his behavior. I tried talking on my boyfriend but he would not have any of it. In the end, I had to ask him to leave and I had a hard time to get my life back. Now, I realize that feeding is simply another kind of abuse. Also, it is very easy to get stuck in this kind of relationship and many people do not recognize till it is too late.
